What’s the Difference? Distinguishing Type 4 from types 6 and 7

This post discusses type 4

Core Motivation: feel understood;

Action Goal: communicate honestly or not at all

There are circumstances when type 4 people can seem to fit the description for type 6 or type 7.  Below are some pointers that clarify what sets type 4 people apart from each of the other types.  

Both 4 and 6 types are emotionally sensitive.  The difference shows up when we look at the kinds of relationships where that sensitivity appears.  Type 4 people invest most of their emotional energy into the few most intimate relationships they have.  And, their emotional sensitivity is reserved for those relationships.  In contrast, type 6 people bring their emotional sensitivity to every interaction they have, whether or not it is in the context of an emotionally intimate relationship.

Both 4 and 7 types live life with a strong intuitive sense of what feels right or not right.  The difference shows up when we look at the general categories of what feels right to each type.  Type 4 people prioritize deep emotional experience and expression, supporting their intuitive attraction to the Arts and spiritual pursuits.  In contrast, type 7 people prioritize the thrill of the moment, supporting their intuitive attraction to extreme sports and other experiences that provide opportunity for intense sensory stimulation.

Overall, type 4 individuals are deeply focused on their internal life.  They often surprise those around them with their ability to not notice events or communication they would consider mundane.